The REAL TRUTH

Dear diary

Everybody says that relationships have different stages and the stage of falling in love ends after a while (some people say 3 months , other couple of years),and then love becomes stronger and calm, couples no longer fell this excitement of being together, the butteflies in their stomach because the falling in love is gone and they must move to the next stage and enjoy it.

However I was thinking that accepting that, is not only sad but also dangerous because if a person falls in love on someone else that feeling will be so strong that can push that one to do crazy things and even leave a current relationship. It is also sad because that means that the feeling of excitement will no loger be there what makes the relationship transform in a old couple relationship even before their 30´s, so... it can not be true, there must be another way. And after some time thinking about it I realized that it is a LIE! , but I can only realized that now.

The real truth is that people change, even inside a couple both of them are living different lives outside their relationship, jobs, friends, experiences, conversations, feelings, etc. And if a main change of behaviour is seemable after one year, then you can see after periods of time that the person you live with is a different person, and you ARE a different person, what means that you CAN fall in love again of that person that your gf, bf, wife or husband has become every certain period of time!.

We just assumed that we know her/ him and the falling in love stage is gone.. of course that if we think this way we can live many years not realizing that the person we have next to us is changing and after some time you can feel that you dont even know him/ her anymore; you did not give you the chance in all those years to fall in love of your couple again!. GREAT eh?

Diary, I am excited to move this week, I am sure everything will go well, I have found a yoga place and even a Buddhist Center couple of blocks away of my new home so wish me all luck because I have more reasons to get excited with this change!

Thanks for listening!